Because we're talking about a longed-for event that usually has a few years of relationship behind it, and that moment when he offered you an engagement ring has already become part of your little history, there's only one key: planning!
Of course, you both need to understand that by staying relaxed you'll get through the stress that's coming — the stress that organising this event entails, whether you like it or not — far more easily. There are many details to sort out and, under no circumstances, will you resolve them on your own. If you've accepted the marriage proposal, that's the zero moment. Essentially, the start of organising the most important event of your life so far. After the euphoria of the moment, you'll realise you need a plan. And not just any plan, but a very well put-together one. You'll have to meet a whole host of people, professionals in every field, with whom to start sorting things out: wedding decorations, wedding rings, invitations, accessories, a band, sound systems, jewellers, DJs, photographers and cameramen, masters of ceremonies, event coordinators, beauty services, priests, event halls, cooks, confectioners, stylists, tailors, travel agencies, medical tests, paperwork, accommodation for guests if need be... and you're still bound to have missed something. It doesn't seem simple any more, does it? Nor is it. But the wedding must take place, just as you've decided. The calendar method — the version with gold wedding rings. Whether you have a wedding planner by your side or not, as we were saying, the wedding is already bearing down on you and not the other way round. If he proposed to you today, well, in about a year the happy event will have to take place. The happy and rather exhausting event. Yes! There are many ways to go about it, but we've chosen to make a plan in stages, relatively logical ones that you can stick to, more or less. Twelve months before The budget. This is roughly where you should start. How many guests are you counting on and how much of the investment will come back to you. It sounds a little odd, but that's the reality. Try not to take out a loan. Money from your families and your savings can be enough for a decent event. The venue and the style of the wedding. These stories are quite closely linked. You'll come back to money in the end, but choose something that pleases you. The guests will have a good time anyway. A hall on the shore of a lake or in a forest? In the city centre? Whatever you want! Try a venue with a terrace because, like it or not, people smoke and you don't want guests getting irritable because they can't have a puff now and then. Right. A terrace for smokers, a dedicated car park doesn't hurt, then there are the related services that may or may not be included in the price. Watch out for the term ALL INCLUSIVE. It can be genuine or a trap. Ask the necessary questions at each venue. How many should you view? Until you like something 95%. The church. Like the hall, the church requires setting an exact date and time. The essential thing is to bring them into harmony. It isn't that easy. Source Ajutormacasatoresc.ro: https://ajutormacasatoresc.ro/blog/invitatia-de-nunta/cum-sa-scapi-de-stresul-confirmarilor-la-nunta-printr-o-metoda-simpla-si-accesibila
