In the beginning one of the most controversial dances in the suburbs of Buenos Aires, and later accepted all over the world, the tango has always symbolised love. Initially the less sentimental kind, so to speak. Then, after it spread, it grew more and more sentimental, developing different styles that were increasingly accepted by the societies of those times. Romantic, sensual and, at times, on the edge of the vulgar, this dance has always represented the closeness between a man and a woman, their desire to be one with each other. Physically. Only, it isn't just the physical we should be talking about. Desire is born first in an immaterial form, a lovely thought about the other person. A relationship you want to happen. Not tomorrow, but now. Then you think: what if I bought her a piece of jewellery. The first piece of jewellery. A pair of earrings or, better still, a pendant. Then… you think of an engagement ring. You will feel it yourself when the moment comes. That moment. The relationship between you evolves like a beautiful dance. You go forward together and, one day, you will ask her whether she might want to be with you. Differently, not the way things are now. The idea of marriage comes up and, FIRESC, the traditional preparations begin: the right godparents, the venue to host you, a pair of spectacular wedding rings and many, many other things which, if you don't already know them, you will certainly find out. Your life is a dance. There are moments full of feeling, then a little tension and, once again, sensuality. You challenge each other to be who you are: people who are always in love and don't know how to fake it. You have found happiness within yourselves and that gives you strength. Calm and radiant, you look back just as relaxed as you look ahead. Nothing troubles you, because everything fulfils you. Your child comes naturally, longed for, and, already, 'three' is more than just a number. In the end, you don't meet love in a single place, in a single person and only once. As long as you never stop believing, never stop opening yourself to see beyond suffering and fear, love will find you. It changes you, makes you grow, makes you know yourself better and understand what you truly want. You did not love in adolescence the way you love in adulthood, because both we and our souls evolve, grow and transform. Throughout life you have several loves that represent you, just as you are at your different moments. Love can be a childish madness that makes you sing and laugh with joy at anything; it can be trust, comfort and a sense of safety; it can be the passion that devours you from within, evolving into a pain that purifies you; or it can be an inner peace and a boundless calm that tells you your place is beside that person and your search is over. And you too have arrived here. Text source: https://nextblogs.info/si-daca-dansul-iubirii-nu-este-tango-ul/
And What If the Dance of Love Isn't the Tango?
28 August
